America's Foremost Transgender Woman


Wondering where to go with your desire to crossdress?
Don’t feel bad: you’re not alone!

Keep the Right Perspective as Start Crossdressing

I spent almost twenty years living the life of a part-time transgender girl. Some of my best memories are from those times.


Nearly all new gals are understandably enamored with improving the Looking portion of their feminine expression. Let’s face it: vanity is a byproduct of being a chick. *Smile* 

However, I strongly advise you strive to maintain balance amongst time you dedicate to Living and Loving as a transgender woman, as well.


These three fundamental L’s form the basis for your happiness now - and in the future. No L is any more important than the other on this three legged stool that creates transgender happiness.

Just remember: the goal is not really about understanding these desires, learning to look more feminine - or even becoming a lovely woman.

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It’s much simpler. It’s about embracing joy and happiness - each and ever day of your life - no matter where you find it.

My free site provides everything you’ll need
To make the journey more fun

Crossdressing Tips for Beginning Crossdressers

Think you’ll never look like a sexy female?

Crossdresser Photo

Don’t feel bad, sweetie - few transgender girls went further - starting with less - than yours truly. I was once a completely, non-passable, pudgy mutt.

You might even harbor transition fantasies: I often imagined getting breast augmentation or at very least - seeing some breast growth by taking female hormones.


I "lived" almost every conceivable aspect of transgender expression during my forty-year trans journey - a closeted crossdresser, a wild and crazy club-girl T-girl, a DRAG Queen performer - and finally: a full time female transsexual woman.

Ever fantasize of changing from a gal that looks - like this?

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To this?

Before After Shemale

Yep - that’s me - in both photos!

I’m proud of where I came from and I’m forever dedicated to helping beginners and seasoned vets alike get the most from their trans experience. My website provides a comprehensive guide on how to get the most out of your crossdressing life. If you someday think you might want further? I offer a detailed handbook about how to successfully
change genders as a TS.

The best part?

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It's free!

Help for cross dressers just getting started

So you always dream about spending time as a woman, huh? Welcome to the club! Guess what? We're not alone. It's estimated approximately 5% of the world's male population shares our desire. Thus, we're not exactly uncommon. If you reached across the globe - that would be about 150 million men - or roughly all the men in America - if you got us all in one country.

Now there's an idea...*Grin*

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With the proliferation of the Internet? It's much easier to get advice on how to achieve your feminine goals. We can also meet understanding friends that can provide ideas on solving particular challenges we may face.

In other words? It's a perfect time to become the
girl of your dreams!  

If you're looking for more specific info?
Follow one of these links at my website:

How to Crossdress
Tips for Beginning Fetish Crossdressers
Crossdressing Tips - Beginners
Wig Selection, Care and Tips
Crossdressing Shopping and Fashion Guide
Tips for Taking Great Photos as a Crossdresser
Learning to Live Happily as a Part Time Trans-Woman
Tips for Wives and Girlfriends of Crossdressers
Sex and the Transgender Girl

Or…take a glance through some of my free personal favorite photos:

Cross Dressing Tips: First Define your Goal as a Crossdresser

Like everything else in the world, knowing where you want to go from the onset? It'll get you there twice as fast and for a lot less cash.

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Going very far with your feminine persona takes time and lots more money than most new gals understand. Thus, I'd suggest you do a bit of homework first. You know what? It's not the items you acquire and love that you'll consider expensive. It's all that crap we you buy and never wear...that really burns you.

Crossdressing Tips

Take your time. Write down your plans. Search and read tips on the web. Get a feel for the feminine impression you desire to recreate. You'll be glad you first did this research before "jumping" into wasteful purchases.

Crossdressing for personal pleasure

Most newcomers express a feminine side of their personality by donning lingerie. It represents such a distinct representation of femininity. Don't you agree? I must admit I never truly felt femme - till the silk would hit my skin. Of course, like most new trans-women - I sometimes fantasized about someday getting breast augmentation or at the very least - seeing breast growth from female hormones.

Marilyn Monroe Cosplay

Many of you've probably been doing this in some manner for many years: starting by borrowing hose and panties from "dear old mom", testing silky items of an unsuspecting spouse or girlfriend. That's how I started. My poor mother and sister had no idea where all those pantyhose went.  

If some private feminine sensation is your goal? I'd suggest purchasing the following basic inventory to enhance your pleasure. With these items in hand, browse the next sections about shopping and feminizing. Acquire the basic make-up and clothing size information you'll need...and go have some fun, sweetheart.

One additional point to consider? Some of you just getting started tend to bypass the application of any make up or painting of your nails and toes. Trust me: this is a capital mistake. Running your hands over you're stocking covered thighs is a killer experience. However, doing it with bright red fingertips? Trust'll add a lot of pleasure. You don't have to be an expert - just enjoy the basics. It all comes off so quick and easy. Try'll like it.

Sample Inventory For First Time Crossdressers

  • Garter Belt*
  • Stockings
  • Panties
  • Bra**
  • Pair of Heels
  • Sheer Cover for those hairy arms
  • Clip on Earrings
  • Necklace
  • Wig
  • Lipstick & Matching "Lip Liner"
  • Bottle of "Foundation" one shade lighter than your own complexion
  • Nail Polish
  • Nail Polish Remover
  • Packet of "Blush"
  • Tube of "Mascara"
  • Make Up Remover Pads
  • A Very Close Shave :))
Here's an early picture of me when I knew little about make up, and in a "get up" like I've just described:  


*Garter Belt: Garter belts come in all shapes and sizes. If you've got some extra weight in your tummy, I'd suggest getting a larger one that has "lace up" adjustments to enhance your figure. Frederick's of Hollywood carries a nice one for about $35.00.

**Bra: Measure your chest with a cloth tape around your nipples - this is your bra size. If it measures to an odd number, move "up" to the nearest even number. Then, I'd suggest you drop it down a size to help enhance the look of your cleavage. Your cup size (A,B,C, etc.) will be negligible to start with but hey...that's why God created socks

Finding more pleasure from your private crossdressing

Develop an on-line existence

Not only is the internet a wealth of information for tips - it's also an incredible resource to meet other crossdressers and trans girls.

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There's always Craigslist for local connections - but sites like
URNOTALONE - offer an easy opportunity to expand your image and make friends nationally.

Get Rid of your “shame” from Crossdressing
When most men were boys, they felt shameful after having privately masturbated. Alas, anything that feels that good must be wrong, no? LOL

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I crafted a detailed set of tips about
losing the shame and better enjoying your crossdressing experience here!

For many of us, the most challenging aspect of cross dressing isn’t learning how to appear feminine. Rather, it’s not feeling badly about ourselves over this in-born need we all share.

TS Dating

One of my most known attributes in the trans-community is that I never “out” anyone about they're dressing - even if they piss me off. Everybody knows this abut me & because of that fact, I’ve had an abnormal number of high-profile persona's share the fact that they privately dress when able.

The reason I share this with you is to remind you that you’re not alone.

This desire is far more common than most realize - from the White House to Wall Street - it’s happening every day all around you. The only ugly aspect of transgender expression is that web live in a world where people have to fear persecution for simply “being themselves”.

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Don't be ashamed of who and what you are: hold your head high, smile - and just enjoy the journey. At the end of the day? That's the key to happiness no matter what you face.

Additional related chapters Included in this section Include:

How to Crossdress
Tips for Beginning Fetish Crossdressers
Crossdressing Tips - Beginners
Wig Selection, Care and Tips
Crossdressing Shopping and Fashion Guide
Tips for Taking Great Photos as a Crossdresser
Learning to Live Happily as a Part Time Trans-Woman
Tips for Wives and Girlfriends of Crossdressers
Sex and the Transgender Girl