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The Transgender Women Landscape




There is a very wide variety of trans-women operating amongst the comprehensive transgender landscape.

Transsexual Woman

Following are the most common variations & aspects associated with each:

Additional Chapters included in This Section Include:

Desirability of Transsexual Women
Transgenderdate: Factors Affecting Trans Desirability
Why Transsexuals Get GRS
The Most Balanced and Happy TS Women
Common Transgender Personalities
What is it like to be transsexual?

The Beginning Transgender




For beginning trans-girls, the desire for another transgender girl often runs pretty deep. (No pun, intended) This attraction intensifies with gals they consider prettier or more feminine than themselves. Their ultimate sexual desire is often to have sex “while dressed” with an attractive and passable pre-operative transsexual.
Transgender Landscape

For these new gals? The whole concept of having a sexual relationship "as a woman" is a rush. They're often not attracted to masculine men. Also, costuming & lingerie is often an important component of their desires as these feminine accoutrements heighten the sensation associated with their newfound female identity & freedom.

As I surmised above, their attraction is often based upon a celebration of
finally exploring their transgender leanings.

the heterosexual crossdresser or transvestite



This is the largest and most common group of t-girls. They often share the same "pent up passion" as the early stager, but for different reasons. Typically, they are not able to enjoy their fem side with their female spouse or significant other. The married ones have the most to lose in the event of indiscretion, and are much more careful than their single counterparts.
Fetish Crossdressing

Most are only attracted to women, and would consider themselves "quasi" lesbian, when it comes to their sexual feelings while dressed. In fact, if you "peeked" into their personal inventory of "XXX movies" - you would likely find an inordinate number of lesbian flicks.

Pro's & Con's: They have usually spent a lot more time thinking about their sexuality than you have. To attempt to change their minds can be both an irritation - and an insult. I'm not saying they don't appreciate compliments - most TV's do. However, more blatant sexual contact to them feels about the same as another "masculine" guy coming up and grabbing your ass - it's disgusting and repulsive. Most can't be smooth bodied due to lifestyle considerations.

The Advanced Trans-girl


tranny girl
Trans-girls with more experience sometimes explore broadening their sexual horizons - depending upon if they’re married or single. While they might still be attracted to another lovely trans-girl, they’re usually less caught up in the sensation associated with transgender-transgender attraction. Thus, they're more likely to seek partners they find appealing on a physical and spiritual level - regardless of gender.

If they're ever going to find masculine men appealing as partners? This is the phase where they're most likely to explore that leaning. More than one gal on this planet finds men appealing in her female persona but is not remotely attracted to that same guy in her male role.
That only sounds strange to someone that isn't trans. *Laugh*


The Early Stage Pre-operative Transsexual


When a trans-gal first begins gender transition, her life often gets overwhelmed with novel sensations caused by an exciting new existence and minor changes occurring in her body & mind.
TS Starting Hormones

Honestly?

You
never know who these gals are going to find appealing as they tend to be all over the map. By nature, it's a stage of change. These gals probably aren't easily cast as any sort of admirer - because the woman they consider most appealing? Is the one they're creating on the horizon.

Can you say...it's all about
me? *Laugh* I don't know how anybody could stand being around me when I was in this phase of evolution.

The Full-time Pre-Operative Transsexual Female



Women who live 24/7 as women for a long time tend to settle back into traditional desires when it comes to a partner. These gals are usually past any
sensation associated with their female existence.

Unfortunately, they're still forced to constantly deal with their pre-operative loins in all phases of their life. Thus, drama-related transgender attraction is the
last thing they often want or need in life. It's easy for a gal in this situation to get jaded. They're needing and wanting a normal relationship with someone they find appealing. Normalcy - is often the one aspect missing from their lives. Most potential partners are either not comfortable with their "situation"...or too enamored by their unique anatomy. Thus, the process of sorting out “which-is-which”…gets old.
Transsexual

A number of gals in this phase will explore a committed union with a masculine male - even if they’re not naturally wired to men. They sometimes tire of lesbian-based issues associated with trading off various roles between masculine & feminine. After working so very hard to become a chick? Who wants to share that new territory with another?

Exactly…

:)

The Post-Operative Transsexual Female



Attraction - for post-operative transsexual women tends to more closely follow whatever sexual orientation this gal was born. Gay or straight...it's all good. You are, who you are. Plus, as a "postie" - a gal's finally in a position to not have to disclose her unique gender until she feels it's appropriate. Sometimes…in more brief connections? They never share that info.

Lesbian leanings continue to be most common for this group when we’re talking about long-term associations. This probably has a lot to do with initial beginnings: 70% of beginning trans-people start off identifying as heterosexual. Thus, as full-blooded women? That translates to lesbian. Make sense?



Factors affecting the desirability of transsexual women
In the eyes of those wanting to date transsexual women? All trans-girls are not created equal.

Following is the often highest-ranked criteria and things you might want to keep in mind about each feature.

Additional Chapters included in This Section Include:

Transgenderdate: Factors Affecting Trans Desirability
Why Transsexuals Get GRS
The Most Balanced and Happy TS Women
Common Transgender Personalities
What is it like to be transsexual?


Stunning Beauty

We live in a society where Madison Avenue did a great job defining beauty and teaching us that the prettiest girl - is the one we want. Pretty, in today's world? That means slender, tight bodied, healthy hair, a lovely smile: you know the drill.

If looks are
your thing? You’re not in the minority. However, this also means your competition for the trans-girl of your dreams will be higher - and I'm talking geometrically higher.

Transition is Hard2

It is not easy becoming a beautiful girl - starting with a guy's body. Quite frankly? It’s often a nightmare challenge. Some of us end up “attractive” as women - but the small handful that begin with an ideally suited male platform and create a stunning looking woman without lots of baggage? They’re in huge demand. You better be also drop-dead gorgeous, own a monumental bankroll you’re willing share or be the poster-child for persistence and patience if you ever hope to get anywhere with one of these girls.

Rarely, do most of start off thinking about “what we have to offer” when we scan personal ads - that’s just human nature. However, if you’re looking for a
stunning transsexual girlfriend? Be realistic. They’re far more rare than their born-female counterparts - by default.

Keep in mind where we
started!

Passability

More commonly, a guy will want a gal that’s very “passable” in hopes nobody will
know she’s transgender. The first primary goal of any newly minted transsexual woman after going full-time is to become stealth in her presentation. Being read - is frustrating and humiliating.

However, the time and cost associated with that process is often long and expensive. I would opt for a kind girl whose underlying beauty is obvious. She’s eventually master stealth.

Smooth Bodied versus Unshaven
Transgender Body Shaved

If you’re considering part-time trans-girls, body hair is often a key determinant. A lot of TG's are not in a position to keep their bodies smooth shaven. This is easy enough to cover by wearing multiple sets of pantyhose when out in public. I can assure you if this is an important cut-off criteria? You've cut your number of potential dates - significantly.

Friendliness & Personality Warmth

If you tried dating transgender women for very long, you probably rank this feature higher on the list than a beginner. Trans-women often become very standoffish and jaded by men during their transition and love journey’s.

Finding a very friendly transgender woman is the ultimate score.

Hot Attire

Girls who "24/7" - quickly move past the "hot outfit" syndrome. It’s usually inappropriate. Also, the highest heels
hurt - particularly after a long night. Hose and stockings are expensive, and get "runs" by simply looking at them wrong. If hot outfits are your thing? Be prepared to buy a full-time girl one - if you want to see her in it. Most experienced girls get tired of wearing them.
Dominant Shemales

Surgical Enhancements

Most men attracted to transgenders are first drawn from erotic by images of transsexual women with stunning & feminine faces, long & healthy hair, full lips, large breasts, wide hips and a silicone pumped ass that rivals J-Lo…
plus that special prize below.

As with mainstream women, most transgender ladies don’t rate as cover girls. Surgical enhancements are very expensive and once completed, often mean a gal now can’t
work as a guy to pay her bills.

Be realistic!
TS Dating


Dominant Shemales

A zillion guys harbor a private fantasy of an encounter with a beautiful dominant shemale. However, of all your dreams? Finding a beautiful dominant transsexual female is the most unlikely. First off, transsexuals are usually very passive. Thus, there’s an inherent rarity from the onset.

Most gals that
do this? Get paid for such services. If this is your thing? Get ready to cough up some cash.