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In Summary: The Right Transgirl for You

Finding the right girl becomes far more important in this situation due to the inherently intimate nature of the sex. Compatibility is very important - you have a lot of personalities to mix. Additionally, a tg that is fairly fem and attractive tends to make the equation go much smoother than a half-ass cross dresser. Without it, it's more like two guys with a girl.

Your sexual desires will dictate a lot of the features you are looking for in a girl. If you're shy about describing what you seek, you can be in for a long process. This is particularly true if your needs are unique. I think you'll find most tg's are fairly straight forward about what they will & won't do. If they are into couples - and they find you attractive - they will likely be all to eager to offer any information you need.

If you're interested in giving or receiving anal or oral sex and have never done so with a transgendered male, I'd suggest you read the other headings in this section. They include details which will make this experience more pleasurable.

A lot of couples who seek a tg playmate are motivated by the husbands desire to dress as well. Most tg's are all too happy to help in this department, but it can be important to define sexual roles. Some girls just can't get excited about screwing a guy with a hairy ass. You'll do best to bring up these matters early on, if it's important to your pleasure.

Happy hunting! ::))




"T-Girl & Couples...Sex Discussion"

Threesomes: Fun to the Third Power

On a pure sexual plane, a relationship between a couple and a t-girl tends to be one of the better combinations that exists. Why? For starters, the mathematics work well. There are just so many variations and combinations for pleasure. It takes some pretty bad chemistry for this union not to work - once the fireworks begin.

Naturally, such a union is first governed by the male's (in the couple) comfort of being sexually intimate with a "chick with an enlarged clit". However, I'll assume the reader is already past this uncertainty - and has dealt with any related insecurities. 

Thoughts for a Male-Female Couple Interested in a Transsexual

Getting to where everybody is comfortable is the biggest challenge. Most couples, who explore sex with a t-girl, have already tested boundaries with other sexual partners - single males, single females, and/or other couples. If you've explored some of these avenues, you already know many of the inherent problems that can occur with adding an outsider to your bedroom.

The key to success with threesomes (or moresome's) is for "the couple" - to in no way be threatened by the advances of a third party. This is easier said than done. There are several ways a threat can occur. First, is when a play partner contacts or shows attraction to a member of the couple outside the arranged time they are together. I think one basically calls this making a move on somebody. The other type of threat is less direct, but no less impactful. It occurs when a member of "the couple" feels inadequate in some manner when compared physically to the added love partner.


It is on these notes that a t-girl often provides an extraordinary balance to the equation. Why? First, the male of the couple rarely feels any threat. This guy-gal is just way too feminine to challenge his role as the masculine leader of the get together. 

Doing anything that even hints of masculinity is usually the last thing on any t-girl's agenda.  In fact, the only time the couple/tg situation tends to become troublesome is when the couple is seeking a t-girl to dominate or feminize the male. There are t-girls out there that enjoy this role, but you will have to search more diligently to find them one for a non-fee relationship. 

Likewise, the female of the couple rarely feels any sort of threat from a tranny. This girl just doesn't have the same necessities of a genetic woman. She is very feminine - and something different - but not a woman. Most GG's start with more on their worst day - than most t-girl's could ever hope to achieve on their best. 

Private meetings between the tg and either member of a couple are usually of little concern. Any private rendezvous solicited by the tranny and the woman, is usually limited to the t-girl wanting to show off a new dress she's found - and her desire to get a second opinion on how the color looks with her skin tone.

The obvious attraction of the couple to a t-girl is the allure of something for everyone. I have developed some of my closest female associations with married women whom I've had a sexual relationship with her and her spouse. One, is without a doubt, my favorite shopping partner in all the world. One frustration many t-girls come to know is how difficult it is to develop friends who don't have a private sexual agenda in mind. Since everybody tends to feel very comfortable in their role in these relationships, typical barriers often vanish - allowing for a purer sense of friendship. Genetic women often love having the t-girl assist them in the selection and purchase of erotic attire and trimmings - as we tend to know this category inside and out. T-girls always relish picking up make-up and dressing tips from their female counterparts. Let a sexy TG and a GG spend a day shopping and sharing advice, and some lucky male is going to have the time of his millennium that evening.

The only challenge for some women in this department, is when they fear their man might be more bisexual than they first thought. This fear can cause a great deal of frustration for the female, because she's now in a situation where her "plumbing" doesn't compete. My advice to wives in this situation is pretty simple. If your man has a desire to explore bisexual desires, I'd suggest you be there for the event. I've seen men put themselves in some incredibly stupid situations while trying to satisfy the curiosity of their friend below their belts. He'll be much safer, you'll both have more fun, and the experience will bring you that much closer - if you do this together! Real intimacy is not about sex - it's about the degree of sharing two people achieve. Nothing subdues this unique bond between men and women more than secrets - that are never shared.   

For the tg, this relationship has obvious benefits as well. First, single males are often very unpredictable. The
last thing any t-girl needs or wants is trouble, while she's out "en fem". I've known far too many girls that have suffered some form of physical abuse - and done everything possible to keep it quiet - so that nothing came out about their dressing.  Having a spouse present tends to keep any man on his best behavior. Second, for some tg's, not having a female present cuts closer to a gay relationship than some girls can deal with emotionally. Remember, over 80% of all t-girls would not classify themselves as gay. Please don't ask me to explain why having a genetic female present makes any difference in how one feels about having a cock in their mouth, but for many - it does. Finally, couples as a rule, tend to practice more limited and safer sexual practices outside the marriage. Diseases are a reality in today's world. Any prospects that reduce the possibility of catching one, are of benefit to any girl. 

As in all matters of the heart, honesty is the best policy in this arrangement. If you are cool with your feelings - and find the right girl - you can discover a lifetime of bliss with this unique union.