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Frequently Asked Questions about Finding a Shemale Escort



From a real TS Woman.

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So you want to hook up with a hot tranny, huh?

Don't feel bad, sweetie: you're not alone! Interest in
beautiful transgender women as escorts soared over the last decade. Erotic imagery of transsexuals is the hottest category in all of adult entertainment. According to a recent article by Seth Rosen of The Examiner: “Nearly 190 million heterosexual men are attracted to transsexual women and actively seek romantic contact with or sexually explicit images of them annually.

Most guys are drawn to a TS with
MTF breast augmentation, a smooth and soft feminine body and womanly curves plus -the extra special toy down below.

According to the latest Internet statistics, interest in ‘transsexual’ topics has risen more than 5,000 percent in the past five years, and interest in ‘transsexual dating’ has surged more than 400 percent. In the past 90 days alone, combined traffic from the top 10 adult sites and top 10 dating sites catering exclusively to trans-loving males has risen 350 percent.

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While some crossover invariably exists, heterosexual male visitors to these 20 websites now top 188 million annually. And this figure doesn’t include traffic counts from the additional 300+ transsexual sites already in existence.”

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In case you haven't already discovered, finding an attractive, feminine and compatible TS for healthy adult fun or casual dating is pretty challenging.

Your best bet to scratch that itch?
Shemales vs. Transsexuals

Hire an escort!

I just explained in my previous article why I think
guys should start with an escort vs. dating sites when it comes to hot transgender desires.

If you haven't read it? Please do!

Please know: I'm
not an escort - I'm not hear to sell you anything or hustle you in any way - I'm just here to offer free advice. I lived in this world for much of my adult life: know it better than most.

Following is common questions I received from guys looking to hook up with a shemale escort - and my suggestions on optimizing your success & pleasure.

Before we get to all that…

If you're looking for insider tips on meeting a tranny? These other free articles might provide what you're looking for:

Additional articles included in this specific section on this subject, include:

Tranny Escort - Using a Pro
Frequently Asked Questions About Hiring a TS Escort

Additional Main Chapters in this Area, include:

I Want to Marry a Shemale
Transsexual Girlfriend Guide
Shemale Escorts
Finding Your Transsexual Girlfriend
Meeting a Transsexual Woman
Telling Others You Have a Transsexual Girlfriend


I want to get intimate with one of those tranny's I've seen in pornographic movies.

Can I do that?

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Yes, it's easier than you'd think to connect with a transgender porn star.

Transsexual pornography has seen a major boon the last ten years - it's generally considered the only growing sector left in the porn business. (No pun, intended)

A lot of the gals staring in these movies are active in the personal escort scene at sites like
Eros. These sort of promotional platforms allow select TS escorts to constantly travel from city to city each year - providing "fresh" flavor to local markets. Alas, Backpage now offers similar or even better quality in this regard.

There's also
BACKPAGE, CRAIGSLIST , TS4Rent, TS Escorts, - all include ads from girls looking to get paid for fun times.

I'm most concerned about indiscretion - I would die from embarrassment if somebody found out I was intimate with a TS.

Any advice?


Guess what? Professional trans-girls are just as worried about maintaining a low profile as you are.

What they do is considered illegal just about everywhere.
The last place a pre-operative transsexual wants to end up is jail: can you imagine the horror? We don’t get housed with the women - because of our "unique" anatomy.
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Indiscretion is essentially a non-issue. Unless - you anger her with constant unwanted calls or don’t pay her.

Do that?

She might seek retribution by trying to "out" your activities.

I'm going to meet my first "pro". What should I take with me?

She’ll usually have condoms but you might want to take your own, as well. If
you want to be penetrated? I suggest that you “loosen up” your anal muscles before embarking on a fantasy. If it’s your first time doing "bottom"? It might be more painful than you imagined. Thus, don’t get drunk or geeked out before hand. You need to be completely relaxed to enjoy bottom.

A good clean showering is also a great idea - poor hygiene is the biggest complaint most prostitutes have regarding clients.

I would also suggest you buy an "hour" - not a "half" - particularly if it's your first time: you don't want to feel rushed. TS women are usually very easy to converse with - remember: we
get men in a way born gals never understand. The "conversations" are what lots of guys enjoy most of all.

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I want her to "penetrate" me. How do I discern if she can / will do this before I spend any time and money?

This is a common desire - particularly for guys first exploring with a TS.
Please don't be embarrassed to ask for it if its what you want.

The easiest way to know you're with the ideal girl when it comes to penetration is within her ad.

Some will indicate they are a "top" in their ad - that means she’s able and/or willing to penetrate you. Others will say things like "Top / Bottom - you choose".

Most commonly - you'll see the term "Versatile" - meaning - they are comfortable performing either top or bottom. If you add "versatile" or the shortened version: "vers" to your search terms - you'll easily find gals willing and able to enjoy both activities with you.

If her ad says she offers a "GFE" - that means she’s
all bottom and offers a “girlfriend experience" - i.e. you being with your regular girlfriend - you, on top. Make sense? Others will just say "bottom" girl, etc. - same thing.

I want to perform oral sex on her - is that cool?

Performing oral sex of a sexy, feminine and passable trans woman is a very common fantasy for lots of straight guys.

Every gal who gets paid for sex knows this - and 99.9% will be fine allowing you to lick and suck to your heart's content.

Her size "down below" is a big part of my fantasy - how do I know if she's packing what I'm dreaming about?

Most gals with a decent endowment promote their size in their ad - knowing that lots of straight guys find the paradox particularly enticing.

On websites that allow display of genitalia - they'll usually include photos of such. Alas, like lots of men - they might exaggerate a bit: the "eight inch surprise down below" - might just be 7 inches:
whatever.
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Sites like
Shemale Escort Review are a good place to gather intel regarding your dream date from other guys in terms of her photo and advertisement accuracy.


What's "off limits" with a "pro"?

Don’t ask anything sexual over the phone, be respectful to her rules and to her - as a person: i.e. don’t do anything that draws attention - like showing up drunk and making lots of noise.

Some prostitutes don't kiss - too intimate. I would personally struggle with such an arrangement since that's the activity that makes intimacy work for me - or not.
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Unique sexual desires (cross dressing, bondage, fantasy play) might or might not be offered. However, most of the time these gals will charge you extra for such adventure. Some will include within their ad if this is embraced / cool with them.

What if she doesn't look like the photo from her escort advertisement?

Sadly, this happens — even with prototypical dating connections on Match.com. However, you're not typically paying for the privilege of someone's time when you meet off a traditional dating site.

If her hair color is different or she gained five pounds? Give it a rest. However, if she's obviously not the girl in the photo or not what you want/expected - walk. Integrity matters on every level. Things usually just get worse if you stick around.
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If she starts hollering or mouthing off as you turn away? Just keep walking: don't engage her behavior: she doesn't deserve your time.

I want to marry a transsexual - not just have sex with one!

I have a helpful article to help new guys with this desire - please read it.

I want to marry a shemale

Incidentally, her "actual"
sexual orientation might be unique: we vary.

I would soooo be with a TS - were it not for my fear of contracted a deadly STD. Any ideas?

Its "possible" to contract AID's from oral sex. However, it's very difficult to achieve - you need an open sore in both a mouth and penis for this blood-born disease to find it's way into your system.  It even requires the right body temperature - AIDS is no where near as easy to contract as its reputation implies.

Sex with a TS is actually about the same as being with a born-girl - with an exotic twist.
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The biggest potential risk?

"Barebacking" - the act of performing sexual intercourse
without the use of a condom. Some guys just can't get past the desire for the sensation of a big cream pie - as top or bottom.

Please don't ever do this with someone you're not dating steady and confident they're clean. Just pretend…fantasy often beats reality much of the time anyway.

Choosing the Right Shemale Escort


How do you select the right gal from "an ad"? It's a bit tricky. Why? Because traditional "women's sizes" mean less -  when it comes to t-girls. You will be interested in knowing her physical size and appearance. Add the weight and height in your head - and remember: they are likely "fudging" on the pounds by at least 10%. Have you ever met a women that was honest about her weight?

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You can’t expect her to respond to sexual questions over the phone. Unless you're calling in Nye County, Nevada - this whole process is still slightly illegal.

You need to closely examine her ad and consider things most important to your fantasy. The most common issues include:

Fully Functional or F/F - A "functional" gal can achieve an erection. Since a lot of these girls are heavy doses of hormones, some can no longer accomplish this "feat". Many ads will mention this trait with "fully functional" or "f/f".

Penis Size - Most guys want the prettiest girl they can find with the largest fully functional penis they can get: just the norm. Gals will include this along with their female body measurements.
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Top / Bottom - Beyond oral sex and masturbation, some guys want to have intercourse with a gal - or have her  - penetrate them. If you want her to penetrate you? You’re looking for a girl who says she’s “a top” - or that she’s “versatile” (meaning she can be either top or bottom. If you want to penetrate her - she’ll mention she’s a bottom or offers a “girlfriend experience” / GFE. That means she’s only on the receiving end with intercourse. Got it?

Friendliness - You will find this to be more important than you'd first think. Some gals are real bitches with their clients. For a first-timer, I'd rank this "high". It will help in getting past your nervousness. Escort reviews will tell you a lot about her attitude with customers.

Breasts -  If you want a gal with "breasts"  - remember that cup size is most important - not her "chest" size. 
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Height / Weight - Some guys only want "petite" girls - which are rarer - except amongst Asians. As a general rule - we are not petite creatures. 

Domination - Lots of men fantasize about being dominated by a "tranny". You'll find a number of professionals that are willing to fulfill this "need".

Voice - Some transsexuals have very feminine voices - others do not.

Feminization - Some men want a t-girl to dress them up as a gal. Depending on how far you want them to go with "this" - it can get expensive - and is more difficult to find.

Is that you - in these photos? Can I just meet you, Renee?

Yes, the "illustrative" photos are me - even the ones from back in the day when I was a wild weekend warrior crossdresser - like this one: ugh! LOL
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No, I'm not available for dating or new friendships. My life was one horrid: I was destitute, homeless and alone. I'm now in a lifelong, committed relationship, own a beautiful home and enjoy a successful career. I'm only still
here because I believe strongly in helping others.

Please be respectful to the fact I'm not here to suck your dick:
thanks!

**kiss**

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