Using a Transsexual Escort to Explore Your Desires
You'll probably think I’m a pro after reading this section: not. Although I’m not ugly - I’m also not a knock-out. The only girls I saw ever make decent money doing this are drop-dead gorgeous. Starving? Tried that once before in my journey - wan’t sound advice.
Ever paid a genetic female for sex? No? Well, if there was ever a time to consider hiring the services of a "professional girl" - this is the moment. Whereas you can chase genetic females in just about any locale, your pursuit of a transsexual lady will often put you in spots that are a bit more dangerous - particularly to newcomers. It also offers the potential for embarrassment from "exposure" - not to mention life threatening diseases.
If you are just trying to fulfill a long felt fantasy, or occasional desire through a trans-girl, I'd suggest you visit a gal who offers such services in “return for favors. For some strange reason, a lot of men consider the option of paying someone for attention as beneath them. I'm not suggesting you pay for attention. Rather, I'm recommending you invest in building experience. If you're not willing and able to invest in an open relationship - it's the best (and cheapest) way!
Besides, some of these girls are only doing this to help pay for GRS (Gender Reassignment Surgery) - which is very expensive. So it's sort of like helping out a college girl!! ::))
The advantages of using a shemale escort
Lets look at the cost of pursuing a trans-girl without paying for intimate attention. You'll pay cover charges at bars, run the risk of DUI's getting home, you'll be in places you are unfamiliar with, you'll be out at very late, - and you will have to do this fairly often - to get to know even the average looking girls.
It is a rare admirer indeed who doesn't have a horror story of some nearly catastrophic event he endured in his quest for trans-sex. It's not that we're dangerous - transsexuals are usually quite passive. Rather, it's the environments we hang in - that aren't always "four-star".
If you choose to
At the very least, you'll get past the nervousness of the "first time". As your experience grows, you can leverage this confidence into much deeper associations. I get letters from guys telling me they are a tg virgin - as if they think this is going to excite a transsexual. It doesn't. Virgins are something guys with inflated ego's are attracted. Fact is, most women - virgin or otherwise - are attracted to men who are sexually confident. And confidence comes from experience.
Stop and try and give an honest answer to my next question. If you were a woman, would you want to end up in bed with a male virgin? Sexual clumsiness is not alluring - it is downright frustrating. If you are good in bed with women, you will understand this best. You get good at sex - with a sense of personal passion - as well as with practice.
All you newcomers: let me let you in on a little secret. Sexual satisfaction with a t-girl is different from that of "normal" women. It takes a little experience to be good at it. If you're not, it isn't going to be any fun for her - and likely won't be for you. Men somehow think just because they have a penis, they will automatically know how to make another one feel good. Most suck at it early on - and I don't mean that in a positive way.
Problems with Using a Transsexual Escort
Some Escort Ad Photos are Old and Unreliable
Some girls end up looking nothing like their picture. If you read “reviews” sites - you’ll eliminate this problem.
You Lose Touch with Reality
If your long term goal is to actually find a loge-long transsexual partner? Seeing transsexual escorts too often will sometimes make you lose sight of reality. Escorts will go along with leanings and behavior that a typical trans-woman would not. In fact, those same escorts wouldn’t do it either - if you weren’t paying them. No different than if you were only dating prostitutes in a normal female relationship.
The menu of shemale escorts
One thing using a pro doesn't do - is provide a license to throw your manners out the window. Because I know so many of these girls, I can tell you - just because you pay - doesn't mean you are "getting it" more than once - if at all - if you act like a jerk from the onset, they'll simply leave you hanging - before you even start. At the very least, you'll never see them again.
Since there are no certification requirements to be classified as a professional shemale escort - we'll just categorize them as “any such trans-girl who solicits sex in exchange for money”. Sound fair enough? With that in mind, let's look at the available options:
"Danger, Will Robinson, danger". Can I make this any more clear? Unless you simply enjoy the process of putting your life in jeopardy - I'd pass on this option. There was a time when this was actually a viable avenue. For decades, full-time trans-girls were unable to gain meaningful employment due to discrimination issues. That time has passed. What you'll find on the street today, is typically the worst form of person. Drug addiction, diseases, and an inclination to rob you blind - are common traits of today's "tg street girl". Not all the street girls are this way - but most are. I'd really suggest you "drive right by" this opportunity.
Some of the girls in t-friendly bars take money "or favors" in exchange for sex. Quite frankly, a lot of them do this to support a drug habit. Others are just trying to make a little "extra" weekend play money.
In Atlanta, I know these girls faces, names, and personalities - because I see them out all the time at the clubs. However, most always look "the same" - no matter where I travel: Cocaine thin, and some are absolutely gorgeous. Unfortunately, they usually drop off the face of the earth in time - due to a lifestyle that the human body simply isn't designed to endure.
You can meet some pretty hot girls in tg-friendly nightclubs. All trans-girls - from first time crossdressers - to the silicone queens - like to have fun. And trans-friendly bars are usually where some play. However, experience in the t-girl scene will play a big role in your having any success with this option.
Girls with Ads
Back Page is now the primary promotion source for all escorts across the US. When you combine these contacts with shemale escort reviews, you’ll usually find what you’re looking for at a reasonable price.
If you have a larger budget, Eros is probably your best resource. Most transsexuals active on Eros constantly travel the US and keep their schedule of when they’ll be in your city posted on Eros. Many of the most well known shemale porn stars use this venue to connect with men.
How to choose the right shemale escort
How do you select the right gal from "an ad"? It's a bit tricky. Why? Because traditional "women's sizes" mean less - when it comes to t-girls. You will be interested in knowing her physical size and appearance. Add the weight and height in your head - and remember: they are likely "fudging" on the pounds by at least 10%. Have you ever met a women that was honest about her weight?
You can’t expect her to respond to sexual questions over the phone. Unless you're calling in Nye County, Nevada - this whole process is still slightly illegal.
You need to closely examine her ad and consider things most important to your fantasy. The most common issues include:
Fully Functional or F/F - A "functional" gal can achieve an erection. Since a lot of these girls are heavy doses of hormones, some can no longer accomplish this "feat". Many ads will mention this trait with "fully functional" or "f/f".
Penis Size - Most guys want the prettiest girl they can find with the largest fully functional penis they can get: just the norm. Gals will include this along with their female body measurements
Top / Bottom - Beyond oral sex and masturbation, some guys want to have intercourse with a gal - or have her - penetrate them. If you want her to penetrate you? You’re looking for a girl who says she’s “a top” - or that she’s “versatile” (meaning she can be either top or bottom. If you want to penetrate her - she’ll mention she’s a bottom or offers a “girlfriend experience” / GFE. That means she’s only on the receiving end with intercourse. Got it?
Friendliness - You will find this to be more important than you'd first think. Some gals are real bitches with their clients. For a first-timer, I'd rank this "high". It will help in getting past your nervousness. Escort reviews will tell you a lot about her attitude with customers.
Breasts - If you want a gal with "breasts" - remember that cup size is most important - not her "chest" size.
Height / Weight - Some guys only want "petite" girls - which are rarer - except amongst Asians. As a general rule - we are not petite creatures.
Domination - Lots of men fantasize about being dominated by a "tranny". You'll find a number of professionals that are willing to fulfill this "need".
Voice - Some transsexuals have very feminine voices - others do not.
Feminization - Some men want a t-girl to dress them up as a gal. Depending on how far you want them to go with "this" - it can get expensive - and is more difficult to find.
Escort Review Sites
There are several on-line sites that provide advice for choosing the girl of your dreams.
The best I've seen is SheMale Escort Review - a site where people share their personal experiences with certain "pros". If you travel - you will find this to be an extremely valuable tool in finding the right gal for you.
What makes this "club" special is that the founder does an excellent job of "coaching" informative responses and analysis from the members. You'll also find notes and observations on girls in cities all over the country. Any of your experiences with girls will also be appreciated by all.
You can also google the escort’s phone number and will often be directed to a local “review”.
Additional chapters Included in this section on this subject, include:
Tranny Escort - Using a Pro
Frequently Asked Questions About Hiring a TS Escort