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Transsexual, TS and Shemale Dating Websites Review



Looking to find a sexy trans girl for something longer term connection?
TS GIrlfriend

It's not easy unless you get lucky - meet her during every day life and first form a healthy friendship that evolves into something better. CAn't begin to tell you the number of girls I know who met their sweetie on a whim - in a shopping isle at their local Target or at a bar waiting to be seated at a restaurant.

Following is an encapsulation of some of the most popular places to look for a transsexual girlfriend on the web:

Also, if you're looking for insider tips on meeting a tranny? These other free site articles might provide what you're looking for:

The Four Big Challenges with Finding a TS Girlfriend
Transsexual and Shemale Dating Websites
Transgender Chat Rooms
Writing a Good Letter to a Trans Woman
The Six Worst Things to Say to a TS

TS Dating Website Reviews



UrNotAlone has one of the most comprehensive registries of trans girls around and an active “chat room” - but the site is more for girls to connect as friends and for support versus a “dating site”. You can view the girls complete gallery of photos if you buy their affordable member upgrade.
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TSDating.com - One of the largest commercial trans-dating sites.

TS TV Dates - This commercial trans date site is larger and better suited than most expect: lots of ads from real gals / worth a visit.

TS Dates - Another commercial trans dating website. They all start to look the same after awhile, no? Sometimes think they all hire the same web designer. Another noted resource.

TGPersonals.com - A free site. A favorite for many.

TransgenderDate.com - Long established trans dating site dedicated to connecting relationships vs. hook ups. Well regarded.

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Match.com - Lots of trans-women have a personal ad on traditional dating sites like Match.com. You’ll need to search key words to find a transsexual. However, a lot of the girls on here are post-operative. If you’re looking for pre-op or non-op, you’ll completely piss-off a "postie" if you ask her if she still has her in-born equipment.

OKCupid.com - Lots of trans-women have a personal ad on traditional dating sites like OKCupid.com - even more than match.com - since its free and the owner of PlentyofFish.com deletes any trans women he finds on his site: the ultimate jerk!

You’ll need to search key words to find a transsexual. However, a lot of the girls on here are post-operative. If you’re looking for pre-op or non-op, you’ll completely piss-off a "postie" if you ask her if she still has her in-born equipment.

TS Girlfriend - A noncommercial site. Also includes helpful articles and tips.

Trannydates


Transgender Dating Apps



Trans - "Trans" is a new exclusively transgender based dating app. Suspect its a bit more focused on the alternative sexual nature of transgender versus legitimate love connection since its description also mentions "Kinky Chat".
Skout - Skout will forever be special in my book - its where I first met my fiancé and partner of over three years: Samantha.
Tinder - for years "Tinder" - one of the most popular dating Apps was not exactly trans friendly. Following an update in 2016 - that company made great strides to help gender non-conforming people find partners and playmates.


Additional Main Chapters in this Area, include:

I Want to Marry a Shemale
Transsexual Girlfriend Guide
Shemale Escorts
Finding Your Transsexual Girlfriend
Meeting a Transsexual Woman
Telling Others You Have a Transsexual Girlfriend

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The Six Worst Things to Say to a Transsexual in a First Email

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All set to craft that first letter to the transsexual woman of your dreams? Congrats! Hope it goes well. However, there are four subjects, comments, attachments and phrases I would strongly suggest you steer clear, including:


Shemale
Don’t
use the term “shemale” at any point in your letter. This description was created by the pornography industry to help sell pornographic erotica that features pre-operative transsexual women. It’s considered a derogatory descriptor to almost every transsexual woman - unless she’s trying to get you to subscribe to her own private porn site. Its pretty much “the N-Word” of the transgender community.

When a guy uses the term s
hemale when communicating with a transsexual woman? It tells her three important things: first off, you know nothing about transgender women, second - your desire is completely rooted in a sexual fantasy and three - this inexperience means you’re not remotely a candidate for any sort of real relationship.

Get the picture?

“I’m a virgin & I want you to be my first. Please be gentle.”

I can’t begin to tell you the number of times I’ve seen this sort of info included in a personal ad or as a first response during initial correspondence with a transgender woman. It also sometimes includes a graphic image of the guy’s backside.

BIG mistake!

Along with the dominant she-male fantasy? This is about the worst thing you could say to a transsexual woman. Why’s that?

First off, very few transsexual women sexually identify as versatile - let alone
top. Thus, what you’re putting out would be comparable to a gay guy sending you photos of his ass bent over and asking if you wanted some - if your ad was on a heterosexual dating site. Can you imagine how you would react to such a letter?

Secondly, “virgins” of any sort - be it sexually or with trans-dating - are usually not appealing to many transsexual women. Taking virgins is a guy fantasy…not female. Women – trans or otherwise – tend to respond most aptly to men that are comfortable with handling a woman. Trans-women go through a lot to get where they are now in life, appearance and sexuality. Your shy newness is
not appealing to such a platform.
Shemale Love

Finally, such a comment implies this is all about a sexual fantasy to you. Most transsexuals will suggest you take that need up with a paid escort.

Anything that strikes as “looking for my first experience” - will usually work against you if you’re trying to connect on-line. The only time that’s not the case is if you first meet her in a public setting. However, the “I’m a virgin” comment insures you’ll go home alone every single time.

Again, if you’re looking for your first experience? I would strongly recommend you
start with a transsexual escort.


Nude Photos
The third worst thing you can do is include nude photos of yourself. No woman - transsexual or otherwise - wants to bear witness to your penis unless she specifically advertised for some sort of extraordinary anatomical feature. Remember…we were once men. We’ve seen far more naked guys in our lifetime than all of our female friends, combined!

If you look good with your shirt off? Fine. If you
kill a swimsuit - include a fun picture from the beach. Don’t send a nude photo!

Transsexual women understand most men simply want to fulfill a fantasy by reaching out. Sending a nude photo - including a close-up of Mr. Willy? This confirms you’re in
that category and drops your chances to pretty-much zilch.

“I See You as a Woman”

Saying “I
see you as a woman” sounds like a good idea and I know most guys that say this have their heart in the right place. However, in reality? By saying that? You’re affirming you do see her differently. Have you made that same statement to a born-woman? Of course not. Thus, don’t use the phrase with a transsexual female either.

Reminds me of that scene in Pretty Woman where Richard Gere tells Julia’s Roberts character he’s never treated her like a prostitute and she private retorts: “You just did”.

Just communicate and treat her like any other lady. Steer clear of transgender-based subjects and terminology.


“Is that your real hair?”

Most transsexual women wear wigs or extensions as a part of their female platform. You’d never know - since we become very skilled at crafting a convincing presentation at every level.

Telling a transsexual you prefer / or only want a beautiful transsexual with her
own hair is like a woman saying she only wants a hot guy with at least a $10 million net worth statement.

Some things can’t be helped:
get over it.
Transsexual Love

“Do you still have your penis?”

Transsexual women that place an on-line personal ad realize most guys who respond are seeking
the fantasy: a beautiful female form who still has a penis. However, it’s entirely inappropriate to ask if she still has such configuration.
Most gals who completed bottom surgery will mention they are “post-operative” in their ad. That means - they no longer possess male configuration. It’s a private question and girls have a wide variety of outlooks about how they feel about this part of their anatomy. Don’t ask about it early-on.


How do you find the perfect transsexual girlfriend?

How would most guys define the “perfect” transsexual girlfriend?

No Perfect Transgender Women

Let’s see…probably something like this: a beautiful, completely passable and single transsexual woman that has a fully functional penis with no plans to change that configuration and whose also attracted to men, whose drug and disease free, whose had breast augmentation and with long, beautiful hair that’s all her own, whose not looking to get paid for visiting with you and whose life is relatively drama-free.

Additional chapters Included in this section, include:

Transsexual Girlfriend: Picking a Match
TS Dating - How to Find the Best Match
TS Girlfriend Dating - The Ten Best Options
Transgender Dating - Common Mistakes
Tranny Dates - How to Succeed
Shemale Love: What's Most Important?
TS Dating: Answers to Common Questions
Does
that sound about right?

Unfortunately, I’ve got some bad news.

That girl?

She doesn’t exist.
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Why’s that?

Let’s dissect the “parts” of this
perfect transsexual woman:

A Gender Transition is Absolutely Brutal

A gender transition is absolutely devastating on a trans-girl’s life. 41% of the transgender community attempt suicide compared with 1.6% of the general population: ugh! Family members usually disown a transgender person. Few companies hire trans-women unless she presents flawlessly - which takes lots of time and money. We usually end up in extreme poverty - trans women are four times more likely to have a household income of less than $10,000 compared to the general public.

Thus? Living a drama-free life?

That’s often difficult given these circumstances.

Most Successful TS Women are Post-Operative
Trannydates

Lots of guys attracted to transgender women will ponder: “Why would she ever remove her penis - it’s what makes her hot and special? For some transsexual women? They hate
that appendage - felt it didn’t belong from the onset. However, for lots of other transsexuals? They understand it creates lots of life and career challenges that sometimes improve once she completes GRS (Gender Reassignment Surgery).

Simply stated?

There’s no
place for pre-operative transsexual women in our binary gender society - with health care, showers, women’s restrooms and many jobs. Thus, most transsexual women who now have their life together - including a decent job and who are past much of the drama associated with being transsexual? They’re post-operative - aka = they no longer have a penis.

The only jobs that
pay for non-op transsexual woman?

Pornography professional escorting.

Few Transsexual Women are “fully functional”

Very few transsexual women remain functional with the use of their penis over time. The HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) we consume to create a more feminine platform causes our male parts to become far less responsive.
Sexy Tranny

Girls that work in the sex trade often take Viagra and Ciallis to overcome this issue but most other girls have no desire to perform in that manner.

Equally important?

Almost no TS woman is wanting to
use her male parts on you!

Drugs and STD’s are part of our culture

Very few trans women haven’t done drugs at some point in their journey. Drugs represent an escape from reality. Since our
reality often sucks? Drug use is common.

Also, lots of transsexual women have some sort of communicable disease: Hep-C, HIV, Herpes - tends to go with the turf.


We have many physical flaws

Changing a gender from male to female is very challenging. Subsequently creating a stunning example of femininity from that starting point? It’s nearly impossible. However - doing all that - without natural flaws? That’s asking too much.

Almost every transsexual woman wears wigs or hair extensions. Additionally, we often deal with issues like continued facial and body hair growth. Even some of our best man-made features come with occasional challenges.

We work hard to create a platform that will allow us to function seamlessly in society in our new gender. Yeah, we also want to be considered “pretty”.
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But accomplishing all that - naturally?

Really???

Back to Reality
Okay, we now know the “perfect” transsexual girlfriend doesn’t exist. That means you’ll need to settle for less than perfect: imagine that?

The key to success in finding a suitable transgender partner is deciding what your negotiating points are: What’s negotiable? What’s non-negotiable?

I always learned these as: “What’s half-a-baby and what’s ‘half a loaf of bread’?” Obviously, half a loaf of bread - is better than no loaf at all. But half a baby? That’s worthless.

Thus, what’s negotiable about your perfect transgender partner…and what’s not?

Transgender Features
Lets revisit and dissect the components of that perfect transsexual woman we discussed earlier:

1. Beautiful
2. Completely passable
3. Single
4. Transsexual woman
5. Fully functional penis
6. No plans to change her penis configuration
7. Attracted to men
8. Drug free
9. Disease free
10. Breast augmentation
11. Long, beautiful hair that’s all her own
12.
Not looking to get paid for visiting with you
13. Relatively drama free.