What do guys do that are most successful with dating and loving transsexual women? I talked with a few of those men and discovered a handful of common traits, including:
Honesty - is a big word. Who’s the first person whom you must be honest? Yourself - of course! Are you just after sex? Would you like to form a long-term bond? If so, what degree of openness are you comfortable with in your world regarding friends, family & co-workers being aware you're dating a transsexual.
Knowing yourself and being honest with her about these circumstances is important.
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Be Realistic Regarding Your Needs & Wants
Most transsexual admirers are first drawn to this lifestyle after viewing some form of tranny porn - stunning "Chicks with Dicks" mixing it up with a guy - or whoever else was on that film.
The performers in that erotica are also known as either pre-op or non-op transsexuals - and most are using sexual supplements to achieve what you see.
Anyone who is pre-op - by definition - is planning to eventually complete GRS.
You’ve got to be realistic.
Learn About Mars
What's the worst remark you can make when starting out? Saying: “I want to marry a transsexual”.
That's the same as saying I want to marry a Martian - but I've never been to Mars. Unless you're shopping a mail order bride catalog - you're 'gonna sound like an idiot.
You don't yet know the indigenous language, local customs, unique challenges and all the gifts of us transsexual “Martians".
We TS Martians prefer to bond with guys that have actually been to Mars, learned the terrain - and know they like it there.
Stay in Your League
Without a doubt the best relationships occur between people who are living the same level of openness in their transgender lifestyle. If you're married? Consider a part-time trans-gal.
I know - many of you want to find a stunning, passable transsexual woman with breast implants and buttocks augmentation plus a functional penis to love you. Do you know how rare that girl is - that’s also attracted to men? She’s very rare! You can rent a version - but on a constant basis - it won’t be cheap.
Two of the most happy and successful long term trans-love relationships I’ve ever seen were both between a married, part-time trans-girl and a married guy that adored transgender women.
A part time gal won’t have breast augmentation or the smoothest face but she will often share your need for discretion and if married: is as worried about contracting a STD as you are! Also, lots of part-time gals look very lovely!
Both these love-success examples are over ten years old - and still going strong. They can be that good!
The happiest guys embrace most everything won’t be perfect - but that the relationship can be.
Follow Through As Promised
Trans-women with experience in dating are aware they often don’t get the straight story from guys at the onset. Lots of guys lie: we’re used to that - we’re looking for it.