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I like shemale porn


Does this mean I’m gay?

Do you find yourself preferring erotic imagery of shemales?

Ever wondered: does
this mean I’m gay?

Don’t feel bad: lots of straight guys face similar anxiety.

Transsexuals

The good news?

You’re
not gay. Shemale porn is exclusively a turn-on for straight males - gay men never watch or get aroused by such imagery - it’s not they're thing.

Why do you love it? What does it mean?

You’ve got questions? I’ve got answers.

Read on...

You’re Not Alone!



First off?

You’re not alone. Erotic imagery of transsexuals is the hottest category in all of adult entertainment. According to a recent article by Seth Rosen of
The Examiner: “Nearly 190 million heterosexual men are attracted to transsexual women and actively seek romantic contact with or sexually explicit images of them annually.
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According to the latest Internet statistics, interest in ‘transsexual’ topics has risen more than 5,000 percent in the past five years, and interest in ‘transsexual dating’ has surged more than 400 percent. In the past 90 days alone, combined traffic from the top 10 adult sites and top 10 dating sites catering exclusively to trans-loving males has risen 350 percent. While some crossover invariably exists, heterosexual male visitors to these 20 websites now top 188 million annually. And this figure doesn’t include traffic counts from the additional 300+ transsexual sites already in existence.”
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Okay, I agree: just because 189,999,999 other straight men are watching the same stuff? Doesn’t make you feel totally okay.

What turns you
on about shemale porn?

What a straight guy actually see’s - when he watches shemale porn


When a heterosexual male watches shemale porn, what he actually see’s - is a beautiful woman - a lovely face, all the curves, long, beautiful hair - with a penis that’s somehow been “attached”. He doesn’t see a transsexual: a person born male who struggled with gender identity and worked tirelessly to correct nature’s mistake.

It’s this disconnect that’s the primary source of problems if you decide to act on these leanings and pursue a transsexual woman.


Straight men don’t hate penises: they love their own


How could you find
a penis sexually appealing? Stop and think about it: don’t you already adore your own? Heterosexual men don’t hate penises. In fact, according to the new book: A Billion Wicked Thoughts, by neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam - which analyzed more than a billion web searches - straight men are as aroused by penises as homosexuals.
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Here’s the deal…

Straight men
love a woman’s curves, her soft skin, her hair, her breasts, her melodic voice, and her lips - all uniquely female. They find nothing sexually appealing about a man’s body, chest hair and a deep voice.

But a penis?

That’s a different story. Orgas said heterosexual men searched for penises almost as often as they search for vaginas and out of the top 35,000 most popular adult sites, roughly 1000 were devoted to large penises. Heterosexual men are very interested in looking at penises, especially large penises."

Who knew?

You’re not gay


Okay:
relief.

You’re
not gay and the world isn’t ending - anytime soon.
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You now understand attraction to shemale erotica is a straight guy phenomenon. You realize gay men
don’t watch shemale porn and they’re not remotely attracted to transsexual women. You even realize straight guys like penises.

What now?

That depends. If you have a desire to turn your shemale fantasies into reality? You’ll find lots of important insights at this website.

However, there’s nothing wrong with just continuing to enjoy the fantasy: it’s affordable, fun and never has body odor.

Can’t be all bad!
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For Additional Information on this subject?

You Might like these sections…


Meeting a Transgender Woman 101
Meet Your Transsexual Love Guide
Shemale
Shemale Porn
Shemale Transsexuals
What is Transsexual?
Transsexual Women 201
The People Attracted to Transsexuals
Women with Transsexuals
Shemale Dating
Shemale Sex
Finding True Love with a Transsexual Woman



Common Ground Between Admirers’s and Transsexuals
 
Transsexuals Admirers

I always had a soft spot in my heart for admirers. I think most transgender girls fail to recognize or even appreciate the powerful role such people play in the overall balance of the trans-ecosystem. Ya'll do a lot. Importantly, you provide validation that we're presenting as female. For beginning trans-women this affirmation is crucial to her sense of progress: as a girl. Other trans-girls & women are equally important for us to impress & receive similar validation. Alas, these last two audiences are harder to impress early-on.

Additional chapters Included in This Section Include:

TS Dating Attraction to Transsexuals
Transgender Date: Transgender Sexual Orientation
Sorting Out Your Sexuality with an Attraction to Transgender Women
Transsexual Dating: The Five Most Common Types of Transsexual Admirers
"Accidental" Transsexual Orientation
Are You a Guy Who Secretly Fantasizes About Becoming a Woman?
TS Dating: Common Traits Between TS Women & The Guys Who Seek Them
How TS Admirers Evolve in Their Attraction
Date a Crossdresser: What Men Tend to Like Most About TS Women
What Men Tend to Dislike About TS Women

 
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Know what else?

Trans-girls and their male admirers have a great deal more in common than first meets the eye. 

I already spent a good bit of time discussing trans-girls - and what makes them unique. Likewise, I just disclosed the various types of admirers and what motivates each of their needs. Now, for both fun and benefit: I'm going to discuss traits both admirers
and trans-girls have in common. And how these common characteristics can yield great relationships.
Should be fun... *Smile*

The most powerful common ground between Admirer’s and Transsexuals
Transsexual Dating

Here's a little reality check. We transsexuals faced very similar challenges in our own path to trans-sexual discovery. You've probably spent as much intensity fretting over your trans-desires as we did about putting on our dresses. You've worried just as much about someone finding your little stash of trans-pornography (magazines, on-line images and video's) - as we did (or do) about getting our silk panties located. You see, we actually have more in common than first meets the eye.  

The most compelling bond is actually the most simple. Namely, they both feel a strong need to express an alternative sexual lifestyle - and they both did not
choose to be - the way they are.

Know what I mean? I did not choose to be a guy who prefers to look and appear as a woman.  I don't necessarily dislike this inner need - but my life would have been much simpler without it. It w’as with me for as long as I can recall. In fact, I honestly don't recall not doing this. I can easily recollect praying for my sex to change - each night before I went to bed - when I was just five years old. Can you imagine what it felt like to be captain of my high school football team - and in reality - I secretly prayed I was a cheerleader? It was very confusing - and felt shameful. 
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Likewise, based upon candid personal interviews with trans-admirers, I don't believe any of them chose to be attracted  to us gals. I'm sure most would agree their lives would be much simpler without this desire, as well. 

Most admirers don't usually recognize this unique longing as early in life as we transsexuals do. For the male admirer, trans-girl attraction is usually like a waiting time bomb. This facet of their sexual palette ticks away silently - and explodes - the first time they see a lovely transsexual.

I've never met an admirer who required convincing - that he was attracted to transsexuals. Oh sure, many require a period of time to adjust to this need - before they actually proceed with their desires. However, they
knew they had this desire - from the first moment they came in contact with a girl. 

When a certified admirer first sees a tranny -
he knows. Even if his mind won't own up to this hankering - his friend below his belt - will make it clear in rapid fashion. *Smile* Those men that have no such attraction - generally find what we gals do either - disgusting - or humorous. 
Transsexual Female

Does Trans-Orientation Last Forever?

Can this trans-lust be altered? I don't think so. All in all - like with us trans-girls - it appears to be a lifetime deal. I have yet to meet a man who was once - sexually attracted to transsexuals - and then subsequently shifted this desire. For most - being sexually drawn to members of the transgender community is just who they are - sexually speaking.

There are a select few using it as a crutch for actually being gay. However, since we now live in a world where confessing the fact  you are gay - is really not that big of a deal anymore - few men require the t-girl stepping stone process - to make their way out of the closet.

Typical beginnings of those Attracted to Transsexuals

With a bit of memory jogging, most admirers can actually recall the first time they ever saw a transsexual's graphic image. Almost all, can recall in vivid detail - their first such face to face encounter.
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The following letter is typical of initial attraction and fascination by a certified admirer. I've received countless letters of a similar nature - but this one arrived just as I was drafting this section. Its inclusion seemed appropriate. 

Dear Renee,

My name is Ali. I have a story to share that has turned into a dilemma for me. I was in the navy a few years ago and we were visiting Thailand. It was my 5th time there, and I had never really had any close contact with any t-girls.

I was having fun at a regular bar when out of nowhere, an argument broke out between the lady boys from the cabaret bar next door, and the girls at my bar. I told them that I would bring some guys to their bar (the ladyboys) to buy some drinks and chill everyone off

I go next door to the cabaret and I see the most beautiful intriguing woman I have every seen in my life. She was a pro (as you call them) and she was a "Katoey" - or t girl as they are called in Thailand. She could sense my interest. I have never thought of being with a man but this Asian t-girl just killed me.
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We were speaking to each other with our eyes. Then she came and sat next to me and said "hello" in a not so passable voice. We talked for around about twenty minutes and the only way I got away with it, is because she was so feminine and most of the guys were clueless. I kissed her for around ten minutes in a secluded area of the club. I told her I had to be with her. She told me she was only a dancer and she didn't do that stuff, but she would still like to see me. So the next day, I went back. She never showed and I almost got caught( that would have been a disaster for my navy career). I returned my last day in Thailand and she was there and apologetic. She was also ready to go, but this time I couldn't because there were too many eyes watching.

To make a long story short I was never with her. That was 3 1/2 years ago and I have only had sex once since then. That was with a normal woman. Don't get me wrong I am a good looking guy that actually gets constant offers from good looking women. It is just that they don't excite me the way "Li Li" - the Thai t-girl did. I've pretty much lost interest in normal women. However, I have no interest in men.

Renee, could you please share your insight into my situation? I could really use some guidance.

Sincerely,

Ali

Ali's story is not unique - although the actual indoctrination process may vary. For most, first contact typically occurs via pornography. So what do you do when you discover you have this desire - and it just won't seem to let go? 

Read on, sweetheart...


“Trans-Orientation"  Sorting out your newfound sexuality

Trans-orientation, huh?

Yeah, I agree: last thing we need is “label”. Tell you what: we'll just stick to
calling this unique attraction: trans-orientation...and leave the "admirer" title in place until we discover a more suitable synonym.

TS Dating

Next step? If you're going to be a bona-fide member of any group? The world requires you be duly classified. Fun, huh? God, what's wrong with our species & it's never-ending need for grouping?

Whatever...how about if we just begin the process of finding you a comfy place in this strange new world?

Primary points of differentiation amongst admirers

There's a lot of common ground amongst those drawn to transsexuals. Most importantly? Most knew there was something very special about the attraction after their first encounter with a transgender.

Alas, there's also differences between one admirer & the next. Such distinctions impact what sort of trans-person best matches with each admirer.

What are the most notable variations?

  • The Admirer’s Gender
  • The Admirer’s Age
  • Degree of experience with transsexuals
  • Surrounding norms and present circumstances
  • Transgender Wiring
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These points of differentiation play a big role in how each admirer makes transsexual desires fit into their life. Lets delve into each of these variables and how they affect a transsexual union.

Fair enough?

The Admirer’s Gender 

Are you a man or a woman? Male admirers are most common but there’s also a growing number of women attracted to transsexuals.

Your gender matters because of the sexual orientation of your dream girl. If a transsexual woman identifies as lesbian - that means she’s wired to born-women or other transsexuals. Likewise, if she identifies as straight? That means she likes guys.

Got it? :)

The Admirer’s Age 

Aside from the fact most people prefer matching with another reasonably close to their own first birthday - age plays a big part in transsexual love for societal reasons.

Why’s that?

Age plays a pretty big part in how one deals with transgender attraction issues.

Why's that?

Because there's substantial variations in social norms between generations. Most often, men & women just now in their twenties grew up going to school with classmates that were openly gay. People two & three times that age? Openly gay people pretty much got their asses kicked.
TS Girlfriends

Those born before 1970 weren’t part of the gay revolution in terms of growing up with a more accepting environment to queer love. Thus, they tend to struggle more with the anxiety over openly dating a transsexual via friends and family versus a younger admirer. These prejudices are deep rooted - even when we don’t want them to be.

On the opposite side of the age-coin? There's maturity and a recognition that this
thing called life doesn't last forever. If transgender attraction is a compelling part of one's persona they'll usually eventually get to the f***-it point. In other words? A man's 'gotta do...what a man's 'gotta do. *Laugh*

Of course, we're not talking about gays: we're discussing transsexuals. Alas, in the eyes of the public - these two terms are nearly synonymous when it comes to sexual & intimate attraction. Therefore, the norms associated with them are nearly identical.

At the time of this writing, the optimal age for being completely open to a transsexual partner seems to be mid-30’s…or younger - based upon interviews I had with lots of transsexual women. Ironically, women in their 20’s seem best-suited while men in their 30’s react optimally.

Why
that is? Don’t have a clue!

Degree of Experience with Transsexuals  

Perhaps the most compelling difference between one admirer & the next? Their degree of experience with transgender women. As with their trans-counterparts, the length of time one's been aware of this desire isn't as important as the sheer number of hours invested in hands-on experience...no pun intended. *Grin*

I'd say there's about three basic levels of familiarity with trans-women.

Beginners
  • Limited experience: by definition
  • Might or might not have actually ever met with a trans-person. But - if they did meet one? It was a brief encounter.
  • Experience to-date is primarily from on-line contact, pornographic material, etc.
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Intermediates
  • Had more than one direct contact with a trans-female
  • Makes transgender desires a regular part of the social schedule: albeit probably infrequently
  • Could be a person with very strong transgender leanings...but married
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Advanced
  • Transgender desire is the driving force in finding a suitable & happy relationship
  • Already been in a long term / committed or open union with a transgender
  • Embraced the root-cause of their transgender desires: pre-op or post-op makes little difference

Naturally, some people are situated between these levels. A notable anecdote to this list? It should never be your ambition to attain new levels: it's not a hierarchy. Rather, it's a description of transgender admirer lifestyles. As with the girls themselves, the goal is unearthing your optimal degree of involvement based on your own wiring. 

You got it: we're talking about balance. Find the right equation for your happiness? You win.

Surrounding Norms and Present Life Circumstances

One's current situation is the most immediate variable between one admirer & the next.


Are you married or single? Does your family live nearby & would they have a serious problem with your pursuits? Is your career impacted by your personal life? Do you live in a larger city or are you situated in a more remote location? In each of these instances, the norms surrounding alternative relationships are different.

Also, geographical norms play a role in this process. For instance? I grew up in a small town in western Kentucky. Being transsexual was
not an ideal circumstance. The sense of shame associated with these norms impacted me for many years. Guess what? It would still be highly problematic if I were a teen in Owensboro, KY. In Atlanta? Challenging...but not nearly as difficult. Obviously, these influences are fixable...look at me. *Laugh* However, childhood precursors continue to impact one's public comfort with transgender attraction throughout life.
Transsexual Marriage

These are variables that given enough time...can always be changed. I've seen men alter their circumstances solely based upon overwhelming transgender desires. For example? Supply & demand makes the likelihood of intermediate or advanced admirers situated in sparsely populated areas ever meeting a nearby compatible partner less likely. Alas, it's rare for a trans-female to reside in a small town because of prejudicial issues. For intermediates? They just fit their desires into travel plans. For those where transgender desire is essential? It's often like their transgender counterpart. Move...or live a life of misery.

Present conditions are often the most compelling today...yet the easiest to alter over the long haul.

Transgender wiring 

Finally, we have variations in a person's wiring. In other words? There are varied degrees of transsexual attraction implanted by Mother Nature.

This aspect is presently impossible to accurately measure but I believe as with transgender females: it exists. Only time & experience coupled with intensity of desire can illuminate it's degree.

For some guys - they like all women - including transsexuals. As my old friend Brian told a co-heart who often saw him a a queer club and asked if he was gay: “All that matters to me is there’s a girl up top - I don’t care what’s below”. Translation? If she has a lovely female face and breasts - he cared less if she was pre-op, post-op or a born woman with a vagina.

For other men? They eventually find that a non-op or pre-op transsexual is the only thing that really rocks their senses.