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Crossdressing Tips for Beginning Crossdressers
Think you’ll never look like a sexy female?
Don’t feel bad, sweetie - few transgender girls went further - starting with less - than yours truly. I was once a completely, non-passable, pudgy mutt. LOL
Ever fantasize of someday changing from a gal that looks like this?
Yep - that’s me - in both photos!
I’m proud of where I came from and I’m forever dedicated to helping beginners and seasoned vets alike get the most from their trans experience. Why not learn the tricks of the trade from someone whose actually done it all: from a closeted secret crossdressing diva to a full-blown successful transsexual female?
My website provides a detailed guide on how to get the most out of your crossdressing life. If you someday think you might want to go even even further? I provide a detailed handbook on navigating a gender transition.
The best part?
Its all free!!
Help for cross dressers just getting started
So you always dream about spending time as a woman, huh? Welcome to the club! Guess what? We're not alone. It's estimated approximately 5% of the world's male population shares our desire. Thus, we're not exactly uncommon. That's about 150 million men - or roughly half the US population if you got us all in one country. Now there's an idea...*Grin*
With the proliferation of the Internet? It's getting much easier to get advice on how to achieve our goals. We can also meet understanding friends that can provide ideas on solving particular challenges we may face.
It's a perfect time to become the girl of your dreams.
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Cross Dressing Tips: Define your Goal as a Crossdresser
Like everything else in the world, knowing where you want to go from the onset? It'll get you there twice as fast and for a lot less cash. Going very far with your feminine persona takes time and lots more money than most new gals understand. Thus, I'd suggest you do a bit of homework first. You know what? It's not the items you acquire and love that you'll consider expensive. It's all that crap we you buy and never wear...that really burns us.
Take your time. Write down your plans. Search and read other girl's home pages on the net. Get a feel for the fem impression you desire to recreate. You'll be glad you did your research.
Crossdressing for personal pleasure
Most newcomers express a feminine side of their personality by donning lingerie. It represents such a distinct image of femininity. Don't you agree? I must admit I never truly felt femme - till the silk would hit my skin.
Many of you've probably been doing this in some manner for many years: borrowing hose and panties from "dear old mom", testing silky items of an unsuspecting spouse or girlfriend. That was where I started. My poor mother and sister had no idea where all those pantyhose went.
If some private feminine sensation is your goal? I'd suggest purchasing the following basic inventory to enhance your pleasure. With these items in hand, browse the next sections about shopping and feminizing. Acquire the basic make-up and clothing size information you'll need...and go have some fun, sweetheart.
One additional point to consider? Some of you just getting started tend to bypass the application of any make up or painting of your nails and toes. Trust me: this is a capital mistake. Running your hands over your stocking covered thighs is a killer experience. However, doing it with bright red fingertips? Trust me...it'll add a lot of pleasure. You don't have to be an expert - just enjoy the basics. It all comes off so quick and easy. Try it...you'll like it.
Sample Inventory For First Time Crossdressers
Here's an early picture of me when I knew little about make up, and in a "get up" like I've just described:
*Garter Belt: Garter belts come in all shapes and sizes. If you've got some extra weight in your tummy, I'd suggest getting a larger one that has "lace up" adjustments to enhance your figure. Frederick's of Hollywood carries a nice one for about $35.00.
**Bra: Measure your chest with a cloth tape around your nipples - this is your bra size. If it measures to an odd number, move "up" to the nearest even number. Then, I'd suggest you drop it down a size to help enhance the look of your cleavage. Your cup size (A,B,C, etc.) will be negligible to start with but hey...that's why God created socks
Finding more pleasure from your private crossdressing
Develop an on-line existence
So you want to spend time as a woman, huh? Welcome to the club! Guess what? We're not alone. In fact, it's estimated over 5% of the world's male population shares our desire. Thus, we're not exactly uncommon. That's about 150 million men - or roughly half the US population if you got us all in one country. Now there's a great idea...*Grin*
With the proliferation of the Internet? It's getting much easier to get advice on
Get Rid of your “shame” from Crossdressing
When most men were boys, they felt shameful after having privately masturbated. Alas, anything that feels that good must be wrong, no? LOL
For many of us, the most challenging aspect of cross dressing isn’t learning how to appear feminine. Rather, it’s not feeling badly about ourselves over this natural human need.
One of my most known attributes in the trans-community is that I never “out” anyone about they're dressing - even if they piss me off. Everybody knows this abut me & because of that fact, I’ve had an abnormal number of high-profile person’a share the fact that they privately dress when able. The reason I share this with you is to remind you that you’re not alone. This desire is far more common than most realize - from the White House to Wall Street - it’s happening every day all around you. The only ugly aspect of transgender expression is that web live in a world where people have to fear persecution for simply “being themselves”.